Three Feet from Gold: The Real Reason You’re Stuck

In Think and Grow Rich, Napoleon Hill tells the story of a man mining for gold.
He worked hard. Dug deep.
But after weeks of no success, he gave up.
He sold his equipment and walked away.

The man didn’t know the truth.

He was only three feet away from one of the richest gold seams in California history.

The person who bought his equipment dug a little further and struck gold.

Most TOEIC Learners Quit Three Feet from Their Breakthrough

You’ve been studying. Practicing.
Maybe even working harder than ever.

But the score doesn’t move.
The progress feels invisible.
And it starts to feel like you’ve hit a wall.

That’s the moment where most learners quit.
Not because they’re untalented.
Not because they’re lazy.
But because they can’t see how close they actually are.

The plateau isn’t the end.
It’s the last stretch before the breakthrough.

The Plateau is a Test of Desire, Not Talent

When you hit that flatline, it’s not your ability being tested.
It’s your desire.

Napoleon Hill called it a “Definiteness of Purpose.”
It’s the ability to stay locked on your goal—no matter how boring, frustrating, or pointless it feels in the moment.

Persistence isn’t about working harder.
It’s about showing up when it feels like nothing is working.
It’s about understanding that progress builds underground before it shows on the surface.

Every Small Action Builds Pressure — You Just Can’t See It Yet

Each mistake you correct.
Each drill you repeat.
Each session you finish when you “don’t feel like it.”

These aren’t wasted efforts.
They’re swings of the pickaxe.
You don’t know which hit will break through.
But if you stop, you’ll never find out.

The crack in the wall was always coming.
Most people just never stayed long enough to see it.

REMEMBER — Three Feet More Can Be Everything

• Plateaus are not walls. They’re filters.

• Most learners stop digging too soon.

• Persistence isn’t “grinding.” It’s consistent, deliberate effort — even when it feels invisible.

• Success happens after you feel like quitting. That’s the truth Hill understood. That’s the truth most learners never experience.

You’re not stuck.
You’re just three feet from gold.

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🎯 Progress Isn’t Just About Points

When we think about improving our TOEIC Listening score, it’s easy to focus only on the numbers. 700… 800… 900…
But behind every big jump is something smaller — something almost invisible: motivation.

And motivation doesn’t come from pressure.
It comes from momentum.

🍬 Imagine a Trail of Treats

Think of TOEIC study like a long walk through a forest. You know there’s a goal somewhere ahead — maybe a high score, maybe a job opportunity.

But what keeps you moving day by day?

Not just the dream of the finish line.
What really keeps you going is a little reward every few steps — like a small snack, a beautiful view, or a friend waiting with encouragement.

This is what learning needs: a trail of treats.

💡 Why Small Rewards Work

You don’t need to wait for your final score to celebrate.
In fact, if you do, you’ll burn out long before you get there.

Instead, try rewarding:

• 💬 Listening for 10 minutes straight without zoning out

• 🎧 Noticing the main idea in a Part 3 conversation

• ✍️ Finishing a short practice set on a day when you’re tired

Each of these moments deserves recognition.
A sticker. A note in your log. A small “Yes!” moment.
Or even something fun: your favourite snack, an episode of a drama, a short walk in the sun.

🧠 Your Brain Learns What Feels Good

Here’s the science: when your brain receives a reward, it wants to repeat the behaviour.

So if you link TOEIC study with positive, regular feedback, your brain sees it as something worth doing again.
Not a chore — but something that makes you feel good.

The key is: don’t wait for the test to feel successful.
Build success into your routine.

✅ Start Your Reward Loop

Set up a simple rule for yourself:

“Every time I complete ___, I get ___.”

For example:

• After one practice set → enjoy 10 minutes of music

• After every full listening test → have a sweet treat

• After 5 days in a row → take a no-study day to refresh

You’re not being “soft.”
You’re building a long-term system.

🚀 Small Rewards, Big Progress

TOEIC success isn’t just about the big test day.
It’s about the daily habits that get you there — and the fuel that keeps you moving.

And sometimes, that fuel is as simple as a good coffee, a deep breath, or a high-five from yourself.

Small rewards don’t distract you from your goal.
They help you reach it faster.

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Here’s Another Thing They Taught You Wrong at School: Goal Setting

At school, they teach you to set goals like:
“I will get 800 points in 3 months.”
“I will become fluent by the end of the year.”

But have you ever noticed…
those goals never happen?

You’ve probably set goals like that before.
You might even be setting one right now.
And yet, the more you focus on the result, the further away it feels.

Here’s why:

School taught you to chase outcomes.
But it never taught you to build processes.
So you end up obsessed with numbers you can’t control,
while ignoring the actions that actually produce results.

It’s like being told to grow a tree, but no one teaches you to plant seeds.

The “Outcome Goal” Trap — Emotional Failure Loop

When you set goals like “800 points in 3 months,”
you’re not setting a goal.
You’re setting a daily failure test.

Every day becomes a check-in:
“Am I closer?”
“Am I good enough yet?”
Most days, the answer feels like no.

The result?

• You lose focus.

• You feel stressed.

• You burn out.

• And the score doesn’t move.

It’s not that the goal was too high.
It’s that the goal was the wrong kind of goal.

What Think and Grow Rich Really Teaches — Process is Everything

Napoleon Hill’s Think and Grow Rich isn’t a book about sitting and wishing for success.
It’s about persistent, daily action.

But it’s not about working yourself to death.
It’s about short, intense, focused actions that compound over time.

At MTC, we don’t coach you to study for hours.
We coach you to win small, daily victories.

For example:

• “I will do 20 minutes of focused mistake analysis every day, correcting my weak points with full attention.”

• “I will practice listening drills for 15 minutes with total concentration, reacting to every sound immediately.”

• “I will solve 3 reading problems under time pressure, driving my reaction speed.”

It’s not about studying longer.
It’s about studying with more focus in shorter, sharper bursts.

You Don’t Get Results. You Become Someone Who Gets Results.

Outcome goals make you think you’re chasing a score.
Process goals build the version of you that earns that score.

When you shift to process goals:

• You measure success in actions, not emotions.

• You stay in control.

• You build habits that outlast the test.

The score is just a checkpoint.
The real victory is becoming the person who can create results on demand.

REMEMBER — The Number Is Not the Goal. The Process Is.

• Outcome goals trap you in emotional failure loops.

• Process habits build steady momentum.

• Short, high-focus sessions beat long, unfocused marathons.

• Think and Grow Rich is about daily deliberate action, not wishful thinking.

At MTC, we don’t teach you to “hope” for a high score.
We coach you to become the person who produces it, one focused action at a time

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🧭 TOEIC Study: Why You Can’t Keep Going

— And Why It’s Not About Willpower

Some people seem to keep studying TOEIC every day without stopping.
Others start strong… but lose momentum within a few weeks.

Is it because one person is “strong” and the other is “weak”?

Not at all.

🚗 A Flat Tire Doesn’t Mean You’re a Bad Driver

Imagine this: You’re driving down a long road, heading toward your goal.
But after a while, the car starts shaking.
Then you hear a loud thump-thump-thump — you’ve got a flat tire.

You don’t say,

“Why am I such a failure? I must not want it enough.”

You pull over, check the tire, and fix it.
Then you keep driving.

TOEIC study is the same.
Most people stop not because of willpower, but because something broke under the surface — and they didn’t notice.

🧩 3 Hidden Reasons People Quit TOEIC Study

1. You Don’t Know Where You Are on the Map

If you’re not sure what’s working or what’s not, your study feels pointless.
This creates silent stress. And when stress builds, the brain says: “Why bother?”

🛠 Fix: Get clear on your current learning block. Use a diagnostic. Know your baseline.

2. You’re Using the Wrong Tools for the Terrain

Some learners keep repeating word lists or solving test questions with no change.
It’s like trying to climb a mountain in flip-flops.

🛠 Fix: Change the tool to match the terrain. If you're stuck, stop and ask:
“What block is this?”
Then use a strategy designed for it.

3. You’re Driving Alone for Too Long

Long drives are easier with someone in the passenger seat.
Someone to say, “Take a break here.”
Or, “You’re on the right road.”

🛠 Fix: Build support. A coach. A group. A schedule with feedback.
Willpower is overrated. Structure wins every time.

🏁 Final Thought: Don’t Blame the Driver

If TOEIC study keeps breaking down, don’t blame the driver.
Check the tires. Check the fuel.
And remember — your brain wants to succeed.
You just have to remove what’s blocking it.

The Hard Thing About TOEIC: Why Your Score Plateau is a Sign of Progress

“This is when you find out who you are.”

Ben Horowitz wrote that line in his brutal, no-nonsense book The Hard Thing About Hard Things.

He was talking about CEOs in crisis.
But he could’ve been talking to every single TOEIC test-taker stuck on a score plateau.

The Struggle.
That’s what Horowitz calls it.

It’s the phase where you’ve done everything right —
studied, practiced, reviewed —
and yet, the numbers refuse to move.

It’s infuriating.
It’s exhausting.
And it’s exactly where the most important growth happens.

The Plateau Isn’t a Problem — It’s the Proof You’re Growing

At MTC, we call this moment The Burnout Block.
It’s where many learners give up.
But it’s also where the best breakthroughs happen.

Horowitz explains that The Struggle isn’t a sign you’re failing.
It’s a sign that you’re no longer playing the “easy game.”
You’re at the edge of your current skills.
And every inch beyond this point requires real adaptation.

You’re not broken.
You’re in the process of levelling up.

The plateau isn’t a wall.
It’s a threshold.

MTC Truth: You Don’t Need Motivation — You Need a System for Surviving The Struggle

Here’s the real talk:
Motivation dies in The Struggle.

This isn’t about pushing harder.
It’s about shifting how you measure progress.

If you’re only chasing the score,
you’ll feel like a failure during this phase.

But if you start tracking effort, habits, and consistency,
you’ll see exactly where you’re winning —
even before the score catches up.

ALT Habit: The “Progress Log” — Train Your Brain to See the Right Victories

Here’s how to fight back against the plateau mindset:

What to Do:

1. After every study session, log:

   • One small win (e.g., “Identified 3 Part 5 question types instantly today.”)

   • One challenge you’re refining (e.g., “Still pausing too long on Part 2 responses.”)

   • One habit you maintained (e.g., “Did a full 25-minute focus block.”)

2. Commit to ignoring your practice scores for two weeks.
   Focus only on logging this progress.

Why It Works:

• It rewires your mental feedback loop. You’ll stop waiting for external validation (scores) and start valuing the process.

• It builds resilience. You’ll realize you are moving forward, just not in the way a number can instantly show.

• It’s the mindset elite performers use. They don’t obsess over daily results — they obsess over daily systems.

The Hard Thing About Hard Things — The Test Isn’t Supposed to Feel Easy

Horowitz’s core message is this:
There’s no shortcut through The Struggle.
You have to go through it.

But going through it is where you build something far more valuable than a TOEIC score.
You build the ability to keep moving when it’s hard.
To take action without guarantees.
To trust the process even when the scoreboard is silent.

That’s a life skill.
TOEIC is just where you practice it.

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How to Win Over the Best Friend You Could Ever Have — Yourself

Dale Carnegie’s Guide to Beating TOEIC Burnout and Self-Doubt

Imagine you had a friend who followed you around every day.
A friend who whispered things like:
“You’re too slow.”
“You’ll never get this.”
“You’re just not good enough.”

Would you stay friends with them?

Here’s the hard truth:
Most TOEIC learners already have this kind of “friend.”
But it’s not a person.
It’s your own inner voice.

And until you learn to win over yourself, no amount of study will fix it.

The Real Problem: The Inner Critic That’s Killing Your Score

At My TOEIC Coach (MTC), we’ve seen it hundreds of times.
Students who are diligent, smart, capable —
but they’re trapped in The Burnout Block or The Over Thinker Block.

Why?
Because every mistake becomes a personal attack.
Every slow answer becomes proof that “I’m not good enough.”
This constant self-criticism wears you down, drains your energy, and makes TOEIC feel like a war you can’t win.

Here’s the thing — TOEIC isn’t the problem.
Your relationship with yourself is.

Dale Carnegie’s Core Lesson: Stop Criticizing. Start Coaching.

You’ve probably heard of Dale Carnegie’s classic, How to Win Friends and Influence People.
At its heart, Carnegie teaches a simple truth:
“Don’t criticize, condemn, or complain.”
Instead, offer sincere appreciation.

Most people think this rule is about how you treat others.
But its real power is when you turn it inward.

Imagine what would happen if your inner voice stopped tearing you down,
and started offering encouragement, feedback, and appreciation — just like a good coach would.

That’s how you beat burnout.
That’s how you stop overthinking.

MTC Truth: The Real Battle Isn’t With TOEIC — It’s With Yourself

The TOEIC test is not your enemy.
It’s just a set of patterns and rules.

The real challenge is retraining your inner voice
from being an “Inner Critic” to becoming an “Inner Coach.”

This is what separates those who burn out from those who build resilience.

You don’t need to be perfect.
You need to coach yourself through imperfection.

ALT Habit: The “Inner Critic to Inner Coach” Drill

Here’s a simple drill to start reshaping your self-talk immediately:

Step 1: Notice the Critic

When you catch yourself thinking,
“I’m so slow,”
“I’m terrible at this,”
pause.

Step 2: Rephrase as a Coach

Turn that thought into an honest, coaching observation:
“My brain is working hard on this part.”
“I’m starting to recognize this question pattern — I just need more reps.”
“This mistake is showing me exactly where I can improve.”

Step 3: Move Forward

Take one small action — even if it’s just re-trying the question — with this new mindset.

Why This Works (Even If You’ve Been Self-Critical for Years)

• It rewires your mental reflex. You’re creating a new pathway that shifts from emotional panic to logical problem-solving.

• It builds emotional resilience. Each time you coach yourself through a tough moment, your mental toughness grows.

• It turns setbacks into progress. Every mistake becomes data, not a verdict on your worth.

The Real Victory Isn’t the Score — It’s the Person You Become

TOEIC is a score.
But the confidence, resilience, and self-leadership you build while preparing —
that stays with you for life.

When you learn to be your own best friend,
when you learn to coach yourself through the tough days,
the score will take care of itself.

Dale Carnegie’s book isn’t just about winning friends.
It’s about winning yourself.
And that’s the only battle that really matters.

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